Confidently Cosmic

🌪️ My Tower Moment (aka: How It All Fell Apart So I Could Finally Wake Up)

August 2017 cracked me wide open.

Back then, I didn’t know a thing about tarot—but if I had, I guarantee the Tower and Death cards would’ve been flying out of every deck I touched. Burn-it-all-down energy was in full swing.

My 16-year marriage was crumbling. I was in a new city, new state, and totally untethered—no friends, no family close by. I felt invisible. I couldn’t even recognize myself in the mirror.

And as wild as it sounds… that ended up being the best thing that ever happened to me.

🕊️ Starting Over: The Blank Canvas Mindset

I was deep in the fog. Not metaphorically—I literally forgot to eat for four days. My body was in survival mode, but my soul? She was calling. Loudly.

I knew I had to pull myself together. Not just for me, but for my kids.
So, I made a radical decision:

I decided to treat my life like a blank canvas. 🎨

How many of us ever get a true fresh start? I figured, if everything had burned to the ground, I might as well paint something beautiful in the ashes. I flipped the script and asked:

What if this is happening for me?

💗 Learning to Love Myself (From Scratch)

Then came the signs.
Everywhere I turned, the message was clear:

Learn to love yourself.

Okay, Universe. But, um… how do I love someone I don’t even know?

So I started asking questions:
Who am I?
Who have I been?
Is any of that actually me?

Do I love purple because I genuinely love purple—or because everyone just kept buying me purple things? 💜
Do I really prefer the beach… or have I just always gone to the beach?

What’s actually mine?
What have I absorbed from others?

🌈 Reconnecting With My Soul

It was time to meet myself. Soul first.

I stripped it all back—the labels, the expectations, the people-pleasing, the “shoulds.” I decided to reconnect with the real me, underneath all the noise.

That’s when I discovered the tools that changed everything:

• 🔮 Astrology
• 🧬 Human Design
• 🌈 Chakras
• 🧘‍♀️ Meditation
• 👐 Reiki
• 🔢 Numerology

Little by little, it all started to make sense. My mind calmed. The fog lifted.
I was finally coming home to myself.

✨ Real Confidence Comes From the Soul

The most unexpected (and most magical) thing happened:
I started feeling confident.
Like, real confidence.
Soul-deep confidence ✨.

I stopped living for others’ expectations. I stopped twisting myself to fit into someone else’s version of me.

Because when you truly know who you are, the opinions of others lose their power.

Comparison lost its grip on me.
The only person I needed to align with was me.

😅 I’m Not Perfect—and That’s the Point

Now listen, I’m not some woo-woo wizard with a perfect morning routine and zero bad days.
I still have messy moments. I still second-guess myself. And yes, sometimes other people’s opinions sneak past my boundaries.

But then I remember who I am.
I remember who I came here to be.
And that snaps me back into alignment.

That remembrance?
That’s power.
That’s peace.

🔥 Why I Share My Journey

That’s why I share—because the tools and truths that helped me reconnect with myself might just help you too.

I’m not here to preach, I’m here to pass the torch.
To offer what’s worked for me, in case it lights something up in you.

Because when we know ourselves, love ourselves, and walk in that truth?

We shift everything.
We build a better world—starting from within.